REPOSTED FROM THE TRANS-SCEND BLOG 2016
I know I just posted about the idea of soulmates and how we, in fact, are our own soulmate. This may seem odd to some people but the fact is our souls are complete as they are. They are perfect balance of divine masculine and divine feminine energy which combines with the unconditional love that they are and gives a perfect being. A perfect being does not long to be fulfilled, it does not yearn for another, nor need to be completed in some way. All of those ideas are really based of 3D duality and are no longer what we are truly seeking.
In our journey of Ascension to 5D consciousness we are learning to complete ourselves. Now I’m not saying here that you will not find a companion to walk this journey with, what I am saying is that you will not NEED a companion to feel WHOLE. As we remember that our true selves are unconditional love and we let go of all that is not that we come to a place where we are able to partner with others via love and not fear. In our 3D world are desires were based off of fear, fear of being alone, fear of not be attractive, fear of dying alone, fear of not being loved and so on. When we finally embrace and FEEL the idea that we are unconditional love we have reached a state where we KNOW we no longer need anything outside of ourselves.
There are many concepts floating around out there about the idea of soulmates. The 3D version of these ideas is that we need to find a soulmate to be happy, that only our true soulmate could make us feel love or happiness or this guy/girl is a real jerk they must not be my soulmate. Guess what, any relationship you have outside of yourself is with your soulmate. There is not one true soulmate there are many and they can range from a romantic relationship to a friendship to a coworker to etc.
The truth is we come here with an idea of what experiences we really want to delve into. What emotions we really want to explore, what archetype we want to delve into and then we are born and suddenly forget. We forget that as souls we made numerous contracts with people to come into our lives at certain points to show us certain things. These are all soulmates. We meet, we exchange gifts and they leave. Some may stay throughout this experience others maybe brief but we always bring a gift. The ability to truly see that gift is our job.
How man relationships have we had that end in much the same way, same feelings, same pain, etc. How many times have we explored nearly the same conversations with people, had illnesses repeat or the same concepts recur in our lives. These are all the gifts our soulmates bring us, until we truly see them they will continue. This is why people will seemingly always find the wrong partner. Your partners really aren’t “wrong” you just haven’t yet seen the situation for what it is truly trying to show you.
Unfortunately we tend to think it’s showing us something as inane as “don’t date blondes,” yes I will actually admit this was one of my HUGE realizations at one point in my life. My little human or 3D duality ego told me I wouldn’t have that kind of relationship again if I just stayed away from blonde women, now it did kind of help that I wasn’t normally attracted to blondes but still that really wasn’t what my soul had in mind. How do I know that? Because the next brunette I dated ended up being a very similar relationship. I’m pretty sure it was the realization that I could make myself happy by loving myself and not relaying on others to do so was what my soul was trying to show me.
All of the people we have more than just brief encounters with are our soulmates. I love and appreciate everyone that as signed up with me to help to reflect to me what I needed to see for myself. In the midst of 3D of course I couldn’t see what they were offering because I never slowed down enough to think outside of my head. All I could hear was that little human telling me how unlovable I was, how I wasn’t worth of it how I was just too messed up to ever have anyone to love me. It was those kinds of thoughts I had to awaken to. Those thoughts I really needed to listen to and simply ask why?
Why do I think that, where did I hear that before, why do I believe that? That is all we were ever are supposed to do. What are soulmates supposed to show us, how to learn to love ourselves. How to break out of the 3D duality that says we need to find love outside of ourselves that only another can provide our happiness our bliss. We provide those things in our 5D reality, these are the things that we come to remember and bring out, to find our true source of love, our inner source.
So look to those that have made contracts with you, what are they really here to show you. What feelings do they bring up in you when you aren’t feeling love. That’s the biggest thing here, if it isn’t love it isn’t real so what isn’t real in your reality? Figure that out and you will find that one true love of yours.