 I was reminded today how I used to (and occasionally still do) seek approval from the outside world. This can be in reference to anything; weight, job, looks, education level and so on. Today though I’m going to use my story as a transgender male as a reference for this. While everything and more of what I listed I and many others have sought approval for it wasn’t until I chose to transition to male that it came at me full blown.
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 REPOSTED FROM THE TRANS-SCEND BLOG 2016
We rarely look at what we are saying to ourselves let alone our partners in terms of energy, body language and intimate connection. We use the words ‘make love’ but how many of us actually do? What are we making, what thoughts and feelings are going into it and what are we looking to get out of it? Have you ever thought about why you are initiating sex? Next time you do, check in with yourself, what are you feeling… do you have ‘needs’, do you want physical release, are you wanting to keep a relationship going? Are you relieving stress, wanting to forget a hard day, looking for a distraction? In what ways are you initiating it and what happens when your advances are accepted or rejected? |
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