We are not meant to fit in, haven’t you figured that out by now? None of us are meant to fit in and yet we still TRY TO EVERYDAY. Why? What’s the big deal if I don’t look or act like a "real" man? What’s the big deal if you are overweight? What’s the big deal if you don’t look good in the latest trends? What’s the big deal if you can’t grow a beard or mustache? What’s the big deal if you aren’t a hard body? What’s the big deal if you can’t sing? What’s the big deal with fitting in?
I’m not talking just to all the trans guys that I see everyday posting pictures about how today they feel like they “pass.” I’m talking to YOU, yeah YOU. The one that keeps looking in the mirror, going to the gym, eating no food, eating all the food, drinking, doing drugs, doing a job they hate, talking smack the others talk, doing all the things the others do. WHY?
We weren’t meant to fit in because we weren’t meant to be that guy/girl. We were meant to do our own thing, our own journey, our own way. Why, cause our Souls don’t fall for all this bs. They don’t float around the ethereal going, man I wish I had Joe’s energy signature. Yeah, no doesn’t happen. There is a part of us, that soul that has awoken in us all, that wants us to do our own thing, be our own person, stand up for ourselves against all others and scream at the top of our lungs THIS IS ME AND I’M FREAKIN AWESOME JUST THE WAY I AM.
Yep, okay the “me” is the odd part here. Do you think you just came here to try and be a sheeple, a lemming, a follower of someone else’s thoughts/ideas/standards? Do you really think you were born on this planet to work your ass off and die? Naw, we are here to do awesome and HUGE things. The thing is they don’t look or seem huge to our human self. In fact, sleeping, being in nature, sitting on the floor and coloring… these are all actually part of doing huge things to our soul. What we do for a living, how much money we have, what kind of car we drive those are all bs things your human tells you to do so that you can fill the whole that tells you life sucks and then you die.
Give up playing the game, give up trying to fit in, give up the idea that you have to have anything or anyone other than just some time to yourself. If you can drop all the stories, all of societies “do this, don’t do that” ideas, forget the idea that someone else will ever love you more than you can learn to love yourself, you could actually have a life that is more AWESOME than anything you have ever DREAMED of before.
Why? Because the opposite of everything that makes your soul sing and soar is found in the “American dream.” Naw, it’s not just about the united states but the concept is the same. The dreams of the human is to have, to consume, to be above the crowd. Your Soul knows it isn’t better or worse than anyone else, that there is no crowd to be above, that we are all equal and we are all worth the most awesome life and love we could ever imagined if we would just let it into our consciousness. Just let the feeling of love and openness into your heart. Stop giving into the fear of the human, the desire to be anything that isn’t pure love, respect and honor for yourself.
Opening ourselves up to being just exactly what our Soul is asking of us is the only way to “fit in.” It isn’t a crowd you are working on being on the “in” with it’s yourself. Your own soul is your “home.” your true “partner” the reason you can never be “alone” the reason you are here is to learn to put all others aside and become friends with and eventually merge with your true Soul self.
So don’t worry about the in-crowd. Don’t worry about what everyone else does, looks like, knows, earns, etc. Focus on your inner happiness, your inner self, your inner being and open your consciousness up to learn the difference between what you were told to believe and what really serves your soul and become the love you were meant to be. Follow your heart, not your head or whatever the other guy/girls are doing. And don’t think for a second here I’m just ranting and raving because I’m tired of watching YOU do this. Oh no, part of the reason I did my journey the way I did was so that I could LIVE all of this and then turn around and share why you don’t NEED TO. We are here to assist one another, to love one another, to be ourselves with one another and this is my (whacky sense of humor) way of doing just that. Not only will your Soul thank you but everyone else that feels your light and love will too.